ok. finally, more activities in my life. played bball with kwok and jm ytd. went to giant to buy bbq stuff with jm, justin and ky today.

meet up at kowk's area ytd. jm and kwok play one on one. 3 sets. kwok won all. jm put up a great fight, but kwok has more experience. so its ok, jm just need to do more basic trainings and gain more experience. its like that at first but as time goes by, jm should slowly find himself winning matches liao. as for now, its still early to play with kwok.

as me, i did some work out and practising. kept on practising my one on one drive in moves and play one on one with kwok for one match. i won, 7-6. kwok's smart, nv mark me head on and waited for me in the paint. he knew i suck at shooting and by doing that, he'll get the rebounds off my miss and won't get tricked by my fake moves.

it rained while we were playing so walked to some void deck to rest and i taught jm how to train up his basics. bought some drinks and went home to slack.

met ky, justin and jm to go giant to get bbq stuff. we were late as usual and made ky wait for us. lol. our buses arrived with a 2 minutes difference. i reached first, crossed the road, look back, saw sir kwa, sir kwa crossed the road, justin arrived. lol. like some vip like that. hahahahahaha.

shopped, played, fooled around and checked the prices like what we always did. after that, decided to enjoy life and bought 2 ben's and jerry's ice cream. 2 to one tub. not say tub lah, i don't really know how to call it. lol.

went to ky's house to put everything and zhao home.

well, for ppl who has nth to do at home. try this link. see if that is lady spinning clockwise or anti clockwise. do tell me if u try. lol. i saw that lady spinning clockwise. i'm emotional, hahahahaha, no comments.

and if u really have nth to do and is aching or itching all over for some games. try this 2. erm, don't worry, i won't prank u all by giving u all the fuck off link again. hahahahaha. link 1 and link 2. link 1 is a game testing u on ur lameness, computer skills and thinking. link 2 is just crap. lol.

hmmmmm. just some thoughts here. human life can be full of troubles. just some time ago, u may be having fun with a friend, but now, u are having a blog war that may end up as a full scale confrontation cum war. the same goes to relatives. funny ain't it?

well, i personally don't really like being in blog wars. its quite lame. "hey fucker, i'm flaming u, happy?", "hey slut, that's nth, i can do better!". something like that.

i always believe that everything happen for a reason. so i strongly believe that flamings of ppl start with a reason too. correct? anyone in their right state of mind won't just create a blog for nth and start flaming some tom, dick or harry. get what i mean?

so now, to my understanding, flaming may start for the various reasons i'm going to state. reason 1, out of anger. that's normally what i do. erm, lets put it this way. blog is similar to an online diary, you write ur thoughts in it even when u are pissed off with someone. the problem is, everyone can read ur thoughts. now thats bad. so u got to be careful with whatever u write. sometimes, u just lose control and i must say i'm sry for calling ppl names at times. really damn sorry. words of pique if u get what i mean.

reason 2, self defense. this is normally for ppl who are being flamed. what do u do when u are being "attacked"? of course u retaliate, basic human instinct. no blame. clear cut. sweet and easy.

last reason, standing up for a friend. well, its always good to stand up for a friend. afterall, thats what friends are for. i stand up for my friends too, but there's a disadvantage here, u can only stand up for ur friend when u have all the facts u need to stand up for them. if not, u will end up like some clowns trying to be a hero. get it?

so after all the intro, u ppl may know what i'm trying to say or direct at. first up, we are not pissed that u are not going after 2 failed attempts for u to join our outings. we understand. human being's are busy creatures, not everyone is free on the same day at the same time. its not like we will kill u or whatsoever if u don't come when we ask, if its like this, dk will be dead by now. ky, jm, justin or me will also be dead too. what we expect is a good, decent and maybe sincere reply? not something like, "i'll consider if he ask me personally." a creative way to reject an invitation i should say. hands down creative. i'm standing in awe. but still, its gl. if its first time, well, we'll let it pass. but its the second time! are u trying to make this reply a trend for us? if its so, there won't be a third time, it won't become a trend.

what is a bbq for? its not just eating, its for friends to gather, update on each other, have fun and laugh together. u think we call everyone we regard as friends to come? no! if thats the case, the whole of dunman will be bbq-ing with us tml. its for close friends. worthy friends. friends that we treasure more than some ordinary friends. if u were being asked, u are in that list. get it? if u don't want to be in that list, its always fine with me to remove u from it, permanently, just let us know.

so now. for the great one who is standing up for a friend, u know which facts u are lacking now? we already know u all have plans for tml, we are ok with it, have fun, but what we aren't ok with is the reply. try receiving that kind of reply when u are doing everything u could for a decent, smooth going gathering. u should know the process, boys ask boys, girls ask girls, we split the load, then we add the information together and the usual 4 of us will do all the buying, shopping, carrying, ordering and huan loh-ing. get it?

ok, i think i get why u were so offensive too. its wrong to scold a friend bitch, i'm sorry about that. but those are words of pique, its the same as u scold ur mum fuck when u are pissed. same logic. and if u don't wanna hang out with us like what u said, its also ok, we won't go through all the hussles again and ask u out anymore. simple as that. i hope the lame blog war will end here. peace out.

and its a happy day today. wondering y? my blog is one year old. hahahahahahaha. one year of blogging. thats quite fast actually. in this one year, this blog has recorded some of my saddest and happiest memories.

from ending of one relationship, to starting of another one to ending of that another one, this blog is always there. lol. also, it recorded all the quarrels i had, all the worrying, all the fighting, all the flaming, all the ranting, all my thoughts, the spasticism, all the fun times, the crazy ones, the photos and the 4 episodes of jeremy poon jiao wei show. quite an eventful year.

well, hoping for a nicer year ahead btw, one with less fights, quarrels, flamings, rantings and more of fun, spastic and crazy times.

ok. gonna rest now. bball basic training and bbq tml. brand new "blogging" year, here i come!